Can AI reflect who you really are? Robert Cartwright from Wondra thinks so

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August 22, 2025

When you ask someone what their hobbies are, they’ll often tell you what they wish they did — not what they actually spend time doing. It’s a small but profound gap between self-perception and reality.

Robert Cartwright, co-founder of Wondra AI, is trying to close that gap — by building digital twins that reflect our true behavior, preferences, and values. In this episode, we explored how Wondra’s flagship product, Wonky, is creating “digital souls” that learn from how we actually live — not just what we say we like.

At its core, Wonky is a personalized AI agent — but unlike generic chatbots, it remembers your conversations, your patterns, and your style. The more you use it, the more it adapts. Ask it for travel tips, coding help, or life advice, and its responses evolve to reflect you — not just the internet’s average answer.

🧠 The goal? Build an AI that mirrors your authentic self, so it can assist, represent, and even connect you to like-minded people with shared real-world habits, not just surface-level similarities.

This brings Wondra into fascinating territory: digital identity, self-awareness, and social matching. Cartwright draws a stark contrast between Wondra’s approach and legacy platforms like eHarmony, which relied on static surveys. The problem, he argues, is that people lie — not maliciously, but unconsciously. We misreport what we care about. The AI can do better by observing what we actually do.

Wondra is also designed with incentives in mind. Unlike ChatGPT or other LLM tools, users are rewarded with tokens for using the system. These tokens can eventually be converted or spent in the broader crypto ecosystem — turning every query into part of an on-chain reputation and identity layer.

🚀 What makes Wondra different:

  • Persistent memory: Wonky builds a model of you based on actual use, not prompts.
  • Personality-aware: It adapts to your tone, style, and preferences — from emails to UI design.
  • Tokenized engagement: You’re not the product. You’re a participant — and you get rewarded for it.
  • Future-facing: Wondra sees AI not just as an assistant, but as a social coordinator — capable of introducing you to compatible people or agents based on behavioral patterns.

Challenges remain. As Robert explains, handling data at scale is non-trivial. Latency, compute power, and decentralized GPU infrastructure are big technical hurdles — but they’re solvable. He mentions exploring integrations with networks like io.net and Akash to enable scalable AI inferencing.

The mobile app for Wonky is launching soon on both iOS and Android, with beta testing starting shortly. Wondra is actively building its community and encouraging early users to test the product, ask it weird questions, and help shape the direction of digital selfhood in AI.

If you're curious about what an AI agent that knows you could unlock — not just for productivity, but for self-awareness, creativity, and even relationships — Wondra is one to watch.

More: wondra.ai

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